Saturday, November 7, 2015

Busy as a Bee (literally..Avery was a bee)

We had a busy couple of weeks since I posted last. We carved a pumpkin, went to the circus, went to Boo at the Zoo, had a Halloween party at school, and Avery went trick or treating for the first time.

Avery LOVED the Ringling Brothers Barnum and Bailey Circus. We bought a pretzel and cheese right before the circus started. The only reason I say this is because Avery had a piece of pretzel in her hand when the circus started and sat there with her mouth open, in awe, for an hour. At the end of the first half of the circus, she still had the same piece of pretzel in her hand. She liked the elephants the best. The prices there were OUTRAGEOUS for food/souvenirs. I was going to get her cotton candy but the only cotton candy they had came with a cheap plastic hat. I believe it was $16. I ended up getting her the most expensive snow cone she will probably have in her life..(well until we go to the circus next year).  It was $14 and came in a bowl shaped like an elephant. I figured she could use the bowl to put small toys or change in. The first half of the circus was about an hour to an hour and a half. Then there was a 20-30 minute intermission and then another hour to hour and a half. She was great through most of it but started getting fussy around the last 15 minutes.

Boo at the Zoo was good. We always go with my sister's family and her friend's family. You never see many animals but they have activities and shows and a few trick or treat stations there. Its always pretty cold and was this year too but Avery refused to wear her gloves. At least she agreed to wear her hat.

I took off a half a day of work to go to the Halloween party at Avery's preschool. All of the kids were so cute. They had a few, little game stations in her class and each parent worked an activity. I was in charge of the station where the kids got to try to throw rubber spiders in a cauldron. They would do each activity for a few minutes and then rotate to another activity. Avery of course didnt really want to participate in any activity. She did like the trick or treating part though. The kids walked down the hall, past different trick or treat stations and through the office. Halfway through, I started carrying Avery's bag because it was getting so heavy.  I was glad I got to come to her class though. It's amazing to see how organized everything is and its amazing that Avery knows some rules. The teacher told them to each pick a shoe to line up on (shoes cut outs were on the floor in a straight line) and Avery knew what to do. Later in the gym, they know to line up on a diamond and put their book bags down and then they can run around and play on the gym equipment. She knew exactly what to do. They also made some accommodations for Avery. When she sits at the table, they say towards the end of the day, she kind of slides down her chair and slouches. They ended up putting this little sticky mat on the seat of her chair so she doesn't slide as much and they put a wooden block underneath her chair that she can her feet up on(see picture below).

This was Avery's first year trick or treating. The other years she was either in the hospital or it was too cold and rainy. It took her a few houses but she caught on really quickly. As you know, she hates walking and likes to be carried but she was willing to walk up to the houses to get candy. What was funny (and I guess a little worrisome) was that my brother in law tried talking to Avery and she would hide her face but boy, she was not shy when it came to getting candy from strangers.(I am not looking forward to stranger day at Safety Town).  She was having fun getting all of the candy. When we would walk past a house without a porch light on, she would point and make a noise, like why can't we go to this house. We tried to explain to her that we could only go to the houses with the lights on.

Daddy, I don't really like carving pumpkins. I will let you finish



Mommy had a photo session with me one day. She took a picture and then showed me on her camera and after that, I wanted to pose and smile. Here are a few from our photo session
 
I decided to do the "hand on your knees" pose

This one I decided to lay down. Mommy thought I was being so silly.

Looking cute


Yep, still cute.

Hand on the hip pose


This pic was taken when I started to carve the pumpkin. Mommy didn't want me to get dirty so she took my shirt off. Of course one of the cutest pics she has of me, I am not wearing a shirt but she still wanted to share it. You can see where my gtube was. It is like my second belly button.


Waiting for the circus to start

This is the exact position I sat in, for over an hour with this piece of pretzel in my hand

Getting ready for boo at the zoo



I am a bumble bee


I refused to wear the headband that came with my costume so Mommy wore it(though for some reason I agreed to wear this crazy hat)

 
Riding the train

 
At this point it was cold so we took my costume off and I wore my winter coat....and i was inside a huge bubble

Hanging out with Kaitlin, Eddie and Aunt Janet's friends

 
Family photo

All bundled up eating some pizza in the back of the car


I had a good time at boo at the zoo

Hanging out with my best bud, Chewie

Playing in a box

Here is my preschool class

I decorated my trick or treat bag

You can see the wooden block underneath my feet in this picture

I am so little compared to the rest of my class

Eddie, Kaitlin and I before Trick or Treating

The first house I ever trick or treated at

 
How cute are Daddy and I? 



Wednesday, November 4, 2015

God Gave Me You




So I am a little {okay, a lot} behind posting pics from all of the Halloween activities  and I apologize. I promise I will post them as soon as I can. Until then, I wanted to post this.

Every time I hear “God Gave Me You” by Blake Shelton, I get teary eyed. It was a very popular song when Avery was in the nicu back in 2012 and I heard it on the radio so many times when I was driving to and from the hospital. Even though it’s a love song, the first verse and chorus just remind me so much of Avery. When I am having bad days, I just think of her and everything is better.

Here are some of the lyrics and a link to the video if you have not heard it before. Ignore the very beginning of the music video (since Miranda Lambert is talking and they just got divorced..lol..and the last part of the song because that part is more of a love song…)

I've been a walking heartache
I've made a mess of me
The person that I've been lately
Ain't who I wanna be
But you stay here right beside me
Watch as the storm goes through
And I need you

'Cause God gave me you for the ups and downs
God gave me you for the days of doubt
For when I think I've lost my way
There are no words here left to say, it's true
God gave me you, gave me you





Saturday, October 24, 2015

A day full of 1sts!

I had a  3 week follow up with my doctor on Monday regarding the D&C. Everything was good. He recommends we wait two cycles before trying to conceive. The results were not in yet of the chromosome test for the baby.

On Thursday, we experienced a lot of firsts.

1.       Avery had her first field trip! Tim and I took the day off of work and went with her class to Luther Farm in Richfield, OH (http://www.lutherfarms.com/ ). I think all of the kids liked it. It was $6.50 a person and it included a hay ride, seeing the animals (turkey, chicken, cow and calf, llama, ducks, bunnies, pig and little piglets), a pumpkin cannon, snack, and craft. Each child got to take home a mini pumpkin, apple and caramel apple sucker. All of the adults got to take home a squash or gourd. It was nice to meet some of the kids and families from Avery’s class. There is one girl who is just as small, if not smaller, than Avery! We found out she was a preemie too.

2.       We had parent/teacher conferences with Avery’s teacher. It’s hard to believe Avery is old enough to have a real parent/teacher conference. It definitely makes me feel old. They pretty much said what we already knew. She is shy and timid but then warms up. They said her shyness does seem to be improving. We did find out that her safe place in the class was standing at the sand table. They said she always liked it and could always be found over there. We told them that we have seen a huge increase in the amount of babbling Avery is doing now compared to 2 months ago. The speech teacher gave us some activities/suggestions we can do at home. The speech teacher says Avery starts babbling when they are walking down to speech class but once they get into class, she doesn’t really vocalize besides saying yes and shaking her head no. They said during speech, she used to just sit and watch the teacher play with the toys. But now Avery plays with them and is slowly getting more comfortable. Overall, I think the conference went well.

3.       We found out the results of the chromosome test. Everything came back normal so the baby wouldn’t have had a chromosome condition such as down syndrome, Turner’s syndrome, extra chromosomes, etc. We found out we were having a boy! Tim and I both had a feeling the baby was a boy. I feel bad for Tim. I know he really wants a boy and I am hoping this isn’t the only chance of having one. We need to carry on the Svitak name. :)  Before the miscarriage, Tim said he liked the name Kurt, after Kurt Cobain/Nirvana. I personally didn’t want to name our baby that. If it was a girl, I liked the name Emerson but Tim hates it.  After the miscarriage, but before we found out if it was a boy or girl, I told Tim if it was a boy, he could name him Kurt. So Kurt, if you are looking down on us, I am sorry you never got to experience what a good big sister Avery is going to be someday.   :)

Wee!! One of my favorite things right now is have Daddy swing me! Daddy is also one of my favorite things :-)


 More swinging!

 I was in a time out in my room and was very quiet. Mommy and Daddy came in to check on me and I had gotten into the lotion! Also, check out the cute shirt I made in preschool.


Whoops!
 

 Daddy came into our preschool class and helped me make a shirt!

 Here is the finished product...



I love to sit on the drawer of the stove. Its my new, cute, little seat.

School is in session at Kaitlin and Eddie's house

Mommy came into the room one day and I was sleeping next to Daddy. Aren't we the cutest?!?

Daddy and I at the field trip

Mommy and I. Don't I look like I was having fun. Mommy even asked me if I was having fun and I said yes. lol

Family photo

A cow and her calf. I am just learning how to Mooooooo!

This pig would not let mommy take a picture of her babies. Every time mommy tried, she would stick her snout in the way. She was actually pretty friendly.

Hay ride!

How cool is this tractor? I hope Daddy will have a tractor as cool as this one day


 Where is Waldo, I mean Avery? I am hiding behind the girl in the middle wearing the grey pants.

Mommy took this pic because there is someone is my class as small as I am!

Eating my snack
 
 Making a cow puppet. Yes, that is where I wanted to put the 3 spots.
 
Getting a pic with 2 other kids in my class. Don't they look HUGE compared to me? :)